1. Of Greek origin. Meaning 'blissful'. Relates to the 'Elysian Fields'; the mythological resting place of the blessed, paradise for those deemed worthy.
Like many, I first discovered BDSM as a curious teen exploring my sexuality. It's fair to say my first intimate experiences were not entirely vanilla. I indulged in what felt natural to me, never once considering it might not be "the norm".
Later, I was lead to believe that my natural inclinations were a "phase", some remnant of a rebellious streak from my teens, and so I went through the motions, toned down my kinks...and I was miserable.
I look back at that stage in my life and consider it a blessing. It made me realise I NEED kink in my life in order to be my most authentic, whole, happy self. I carry this lesson forward with me into my sessions. It makes up a core part of what drives me, and what makes me a damn good Mistress; I offer my submissives a safe space where they can be themselves, without fear, judgement or shame.
With regards to my sessions, I only partake in fetishes that I genuinely enjoy, so that our time together is as authentic and mutually enjoyable as possible. I would rather refer you on to a lady who has a genuine interest in your chosen kink than just do it for monetary gain. My days of going through the motions are long gone!
I have a proclivity for sensual sadism. Nothing makes my pulse race more than anticipation; whether I’m gifting pleasure or administering pain, whether you’re driven by lust or fear. The adrenaline rush I get from picking you apart, toying with you and watching you squirm under my gaze......nothing makes me feel more alive.
There’s a clear duality in my personal kinks. On one side of the spectrum is chastity, tease and denial, sensory play and of course worship.
The other side? I crave your submission. I want to test your obedience, and watching you suffer for my pleasure is the ultimate drug for me. The whimper of a submissive as they endure electro stimulation, predicament bondage or the harshest CBT is music to my ears.